Social media influencer and entrepreneur Nurse Judy has criticized Alma Mutheu for publicly embarrassing her boyfriend, Gift, despite previously presenting their relationship as ideal through numerous social media posts.
Judy shared her thoughts after a follower on Instagram asked her opinion about Alma and Gift’s dynamic, particularly following a controversial interview that subjected their relationship to scrutiny.
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In her response, Judy began by acknowledging that everyone is entitled to their own perspectives and values. She emphasized that what may be unacceptable to one person could be perfectly fine for another.
“Like I’ve always said, I respect everyone’s beliefs and how they choose to view life. It’s okay to have different points of view because we are all different,” Judy noted.
She added that while some may prefer wealthy partners, there’s no harm in supporting a hardworking partner who has potential.
“If you see potential in him and truly love him, support and encourage him instead of making him look useless to the world just because he’s still at the stage of cost-sharing. After all, you knew this when you started dating him,” she said.
Judy also referenced her personal journey with her partner, explaining how they overcame financial struggles together. Her intention, she said, is always to inspire and motivate others in similar situations.
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However, she criticized Alma for belittling her boyfriend in public. Judy expressed confusion as to why Alma would humiliate Gift after showcasing their relationship as “couple goals” for so long.
“There’s nothing wrong with feeling tired in a relationship. If she’s done, she’s done, and that’s okay. But why demean him in public after all those posed pictures of perfection?” Judy questioned.
Maintaining neutrality, Judy acknowledged that outsiders can never fully understand the dynamics of someone else’s relationship. She also admitted she hadn’t watched the full interview but stressed that only the couple truly knows the details of their relationship.
“Relationship matters are complex, and that’s why I always choose to remain neutral. I won’t automatically side with the woman just because she’s a woman. This era tends to encourage that, but I don’t subscribe to it,” she added.
Judy concluded her comments by blaming social media for promoting unrealistic standards that negatively influence relationships.
“Social media is ruining so many marriages and relationships. Women consume so much toxic content disguised as ‘empowerment,’ which is often far from the truth.
Why date a man knowing he doesn’t meet your financial expectations only to publicly embarrass him later? Unless, of course, it was all scripted for clout,” Judy remarked.
She wrapped up by reflecting on her own 12+ years of relationship experience, urging people to approach such matters rationally while prioritizing peace, love, and growth.
