Picture: Annitah Raey speaks
Media persona Annitah Akiru Raey has opened up about her life and previous experiences, sharing why she avoids relationships with shorter males.
After revealing her battle with Bell’s Palsy in 2024, some people instructed her situation was a divine punishment for feedback she made about quick males throughout her time on radio. Nonetheless, Annitah clarified that her choice stems from a traumatic incident in her previous somewhat than prejudice or hatred.
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In a candid dialog with Oga Obinna, Annitah defined how her historical past has formed her decisions, revealing a deeply private journey of therapeutic and self-awareness.
She disclosed that her aversion to quick males originates from an assault she skilled years in the past. Reflecting on the ordeal, Annitah shared, “I bought assaulted by a really quick man, and I saved feeling like perhaps he was attempting to compensate for his top. I unknowingly carried that trauma and began projecting it onto others.”
Via remedy, she started to confront and perceive her emotions. Her therapist helped her acknowledge her resentment, encouraging her to discover its roots.
“My therapist identified, ‘Annitah, you hate quick males,’ and urged me to dig deeper into why. My child daddy is 6’6″ and my ex-husband is round 6’4″. I simply can’t be with somebody I’ve to look down on,” she defined.
Writing her e-book pressured Annitah to revisit painful recollections, together with the assault, which helped her higher perceive her preferences.
“Writing my e-book took me again there. That’s after I realized because of this I don’t like quick males. Folks joked that God would give me a brief husband as punishment, however I knew He wasn’t that merciless. As soon as I understood my causes, I finished feeling responsible about it.”
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Annitah emphasised that her aversion is just not rooted in hate however in private boundaries and coping mechanisms.
“It’s not that I hate them—it’s simply not my choice. Quick males don’t take something away from me, however being in a relationship with one is a set off for me.”
Annitah additionally mirrored on her tumultuous journey, which incorporates working away from house at 13, dwelling on the streets for 2 years, utilizing and promoting medication, and being assaulted in 2005. She described herself as a rebellious baby and acknowledged the ache she prompted her mom, saying she owes her a number of apologies.
By talking overtly about her experiences, Annitah has discovered a way of closure. She first publicly addressed her assault in 2018 and has since strengthened her religion, discovering solace in her function and relationship with God.
Writing her e-book has additional helped her course of her previous and heal from her struggles, paving the way in which for private development and self-acceptance.
